Surviving a Hostile Work Environment – Proper Work Attire
It was casual work attire Friday and I decided that to wear shorts and flip flops to work. I’m at a point my career where I want to be comfortable and don’t care what other people think. My next career jump will be to another company and then, I’ll start playing the dress game. Until then, I’m staying comfortable.
When I walk down the hallways, people look at me like I’m committing a crime. Some may be jealous, while others think that I’m just another bad employee. I finally ran into the site facility guy who asked me the good question, “Have you read the dress code policy?”. He wants me to say no or to feel bad. I responded, “Yes, yes I have.” He was waiting for a follow up, but asked the question again, “Did you read the dress code policy about shorts and flip flops?” I responded, “Yes and I feel great.” I twinkled my toes in my flip flops just to show him how wonderful I felt. He followed up with a threat, “there are auditors here today and you don’t want to look bad in front of them? Do you?” I said, “People I don’t care about? Don’t care what they think. I feel great.” He walked away in disappointment. I walked away making flip flop sounds as my feet left the floor.
At the end of the day, I get max raises and max performance reviews. I must be doing something wrong. I’m not in an area of responsibility (I purposely shun it). Maybe my next job will have that, but for now, I’m a full-time engineer and a full-time job. I don’t have time to give a fuck about what people think, when my plan is to leave.